The power of being a follower.

Recently I had a chat with my friend Kevin. We were commenting on the power of the second person to really lift you up to greater success.

He mentioned this video where a guy gets up and starts dancing at a Festival

This is a transcript that i found about the video compliments of Derek Sivers. It says things perfectly so i will quote it here and at http://sivers.org/ff

Transcript:

If you’ve learned a lot about leadership and making a movement, then let’s watch a movement happen, start to finish, in under 3 minutes, and dissect some lessons:

A leader needs the guts to stand alone and look ridiculous. But what he’s doing is so simple, it’s almost instructional. This is key. You must be easy to follow!

Now comes the first follower with a crucial role: he publicly shows everyone how to follow. Notice the leader embraces him as an equal, so it’s not about the leader anymore – it’s about them, plural. Notice he’s calling to his friends to join in. It takes guts to be a first follower! You stand out and brave ridicule, yourself. Being a first follower is an under-appreciated form of leadership. The first follower transforms a lone nut into a leader. If the leader is the flint, the first follower is the spark that makes the fire.

The 2nd follower is a turning point: it’s proof the first has done well. Now it’s not a lone nut, and it’s not two nuts. Three is a crowd and a crowd is news.

A movement must be public. Make sure outsiders see more than just the leader. Everyone needs to see the followers, because new followers emulate followers – not the leader.

Now here come 2 more, then 3 more. Now we’ve got momentum. This is the tipping point! Now we’ve got a movement!

As more people jump in, it’s no longer risky. If they were on the fence before, there’s no reason not to join now. They won’t be ridiculed, they won’t stand out, and they will be part of the in-crowd, if they hurry. Over the next minute you’ll see the rest who prefer to be part of the crowd, because eventually they’d be ridiculed for not joining.

And ladies and gentlemen that is how a movement is made! Let’s recap what we learned:

If you are a version of the shirtless dancing guy, all alone, remember the importance of nurturing your first few followers as equals, making everything clearly about the movement, not you.

Be public. Be easy to follow!

But the biggest lesson here – did you catch it?

Leadership is over-glorified.

Yes it started with the shirtless guy, and he’ll get all the credit, but you saw what really happened:

It was the first follower that transformed a lone nut into a leader.

There is no movement without the first follower.

We’re told we all need to be leaders, but that would be really ineffective.

The best way to make a movement, if you really care, is to courageously follow and show others how to follow.

When you find a lone nut doing something great, have the guts to be the first person to stand up and join in.

As many of you know I think hard about things, often when they are not going so well. How can I do better? Why did this not work out? I have found that when I have had the complicity of someone very close who is supportive I am a lot more productive. I have had no problem sticking my head out and doing things, sometimes it’s sticking the people that are second in line which has been deficient.

Why is that? I am not sure. I have had successes and failures. My more productive point as a musician was when I had a steady girlfriend. One recent date told me that love is important for creativity as well. This really hit home. And i proceeded to be very productive during this time.

Then invariably something happens. From the character traits of success, almost all of the people who were successful were married, fancy that.

I like to think. I like to look over things. They say you best represent in your success the 5 closest people you associate with.

Do you believe this is true?
Cheers,
Elton.

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